Tuesday, May 1, 2007

Generation Gap-A Myth or Reality

'Generation Gap' is a term which is often coined to point out the different behaviour of today's teenagers. Parents often use it as a negative term to indicate their anger and frustration at their offsprings' doing. While, on the other hand, teenagers use it to signify their freedom and label their own parents as 'outdated' and 'out of touch' with reality. In truth, it is neither a positive nor a negative term. It is definitely present, yes, very much there, as mindsets do change from one generation to another but it is not such a big 'real' issue that can become the cause of a fallout between teenagers and their parents.

As a child grows into a teenager and then into an adult, he wises to follow a different lifestyle from that of his parents. This might not be essential but is a sufficiently common scenario. A youth's social icons, his idols and the value system to which he adheres is often not the same as that of the parents. He might like to dress up differently and live differently from what his parents designate as the 'right choice'.
His thoughts an actions might not always be different. At times, they shall agree with those of his parents. It even happens that the advice of his parents which he considered 'obsolete' at the age of fifteen suddenly becomes full of wisdom when he is twenty-five.

Generation Gap is thus neither a complete myth nor a full reality. It is a fact that must be accepted by teenagers and their parents that at times, they may think differently on some issues as the social scenario has changed during the decades. It is not a complete reality since the core values of an individual do remain the same irrespective of the generations that may pass.

17 comments:

  1. I know that he and his were too many. I's earlier written the post using he/she and his/her but it was awkward to read hence i used only one gender.

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  2. parents thoughts r entirely different from children

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  3. well this is an iteresting topic it realise teenagers that the parents are right in their own way but that doesn't mean they are wrong

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  4. cool, i have an elocution on this topic!!!!
    thanks!!!

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  5. glad to be of help for your elocution :)

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  6. nice one but still unable to unerstand.....asparents today are well educated and aware of various teenage issues

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  7. i think generation gap is neither reality or myth.

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  8. Your Generation Gap A myth or Reality helped me a lot ..
    Thanks Rangeen Kagar

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  9. You must have thought really deep and then written this amazing article !!!!! It is really great

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  10. i need some more material on this topic.

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  11. it has helped me a lot. thank you! rangeen kagaz.

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  12. really it helped me a lot...!!

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